My question is that if you leave someone special and that person don't want that you that leave his/her. For this reason, that person become angry, proudy, bad boy/girl. This spoils his/her life. You only want his/her happiness and well life. Then what will you do...???

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If u leave someone and he acquire all negative  qualities just to proof u wrong.  Then u took the correct decision  of leaving him alone.  Lossing someone important and lovable person who is valuable,  transforms that person. Who doesn't value the relationships must stay alone happily.  

No, u leave that person because there is no future with him/her. And the condition is that u can't talk to that person face to face or chat... If u can do something for him/her then u have to do everything indirectly...

Geeta Negi said:

If u leave someone and he acquire all negative  qualities just to proof u wrong.  Then u took the correct decision  of leaving him alone.  Lossing someone important and lovable person who is valuable,  transforms that person. Who doesn't value the relationships must stay alone happily.  

Its depends on ur persepective towards life. If u want to depend on him financially then u took a right decision for urself. But if u value true emotions then u should take the responsibility for ur love. In both the cases its only about u what makes u happy from within... whatever u  believe   will happen.
Nagma Nigar said:

No, u leave that person because there is no future with him/her. And the condition is that u can't talk to that person face to face or chat... If u can do something for him/her then u have to do everything indirectly...

Geeta Negi said:

If u leave someone and he acquire all negative  qualities just to proof u wrong.  Then u took the correct decision  of leaving him alone.  Lossing someone important and lovable person who is valuable,  transforms that person. Who doesn't value the relationships must stay alone happily.  

That person has just lost you.. may be its not too easy for that person to face the situation and handle it.. in that case just try to be friends with that person and try to console being friendly.

But that's the condition u can't talk to that person directly. Then how can u console being friendly??
 
Sakshi garg said:

That person has just lost you.. may be its not too easy for that person to face the situation and handle it.. in that case just try to be friends with that person and try to console being friendly.

If that person does not mind then try to reach out to the closest friend of that person... Bcz jo koi nahi kr skta wo sirf ek dost hi kr sakta h.

Nagma Nigar said:

But that's the condition u can't talk to that person directly. Then how can u console being friendly??
 
Sakshi garg said:

That person has just lost you.. may be its not too easy for that person to face the situation and handle it.. in that case just try to be friends with that person and try to console being friendly.

Yaa. That's a good idea! Thanks 

Sakshi garg said:

If that person does not mind then try to reach out to the closest friend of that person... Bcz jo koi nahi kr skta wo sirf ek dost hi kr sakta h.

Nagma Nigar said:

But that's the condition u can't talk to that person directly. Then how can u console being friendly??
 
Sakshi garg said:

That person has just lost you.. may be its not too easy for that person to face the situation and handle it.. in that case just try to be friends with that person and try to console being friendly.

Welcome. Moreover agar koi bhi ek aisa insan ho jisse wo apne dil ki baat kr sake to bad habits se to wo thoda time le k theek ho jayega but most importantly wo depressed nahi hoga.. isliye uske kisi closest friend se hi baat krna.

Nagma Nigar said:

Yaa. That's a good idea! Thanks 

Sakshi garg said:

If that person does not mind then try to reach out to the closest friend of that person... Bcz jo koi nahi kr skta wo sirf ek dost hi kr sakta h.

Nagma Nigar said:

But that's the condition u can't talk to that person directly. Then how can u console being friendly??
 
Sakshi garg said:

That person has just lost you.. may be its not too easy for that person to face the situation and handle it.. in that case just try to be friends with that person and try to console being friendly.

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