Forgiveness is one of simplest words in the world. We can spell and pronounce it very easily without any trouble. If we look for it in any Dictionary we might find ‘stop feeling angry or resentful towards (someone) for an offence, flaw, or mistake.’
When we find it being in our routine life, it becomes hardest word to understand or exert in our life. But infect we always find a way to forgive our loved ones. When it happens again by them we find it hard to forgive but we do. Somehow we find it difficult to let it go from our heart or mind. And when similar situation come across in our life we blame them for whole situation or previous situation.
Total forgiveness is to forgive and to forget everything. But in real life or in reality, it is hard to find a way or hard to do because us ‘human’ have brilliant part in our body and that is our mind and heart. Even though we forgave and forgot whole situation and put that bad moment or memory in isolated part of brain and buried in bottom of the ocean. But our heart can’t let it go and it always finds a way not to trust that person. When this happens again our heart feels same pain and that triggers to our brain and the whole memory comes across our eyes. We undo previous forgiveness and the angriness again become as it was.
We also hurt someone’s feeling that is obvious. But we do expect their forgiveness. When it happens again by us, we have no rights to expect or hope for their forgiveness. Because if a person can do it once they may do that again and again, it’s human tendency. So if we can’t forgive again and again we can’t expect the same from our loved ones.
And that is the circle of life. We can change it if we can change ourselves. And to change ourselves is easy if we are willing to do. Life teaches us many things in our life but how many thing we grasp from it that depends only upon us. We fight the situation or accept it that is personal view but when we fight the situation make sure you are not losing the person related to the situation. But when you decide not to fight that doesn’t mean you are accepting, that means the person is more important than the fight.
Forgiveness is wonderful thing if we forgive and accept everyone, there would be no war in the world.
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